25 Mayıs 2011 Çarşamba

MONTESSORI DEVELOPMENT- AGE 1 TO 3 YEAR

AGE 1-3 YEARS, FAMILY LIFE - CARE OF SELF, OTHERS, THE ENVIRONMENT

All the activities connected with looking after yourself and your
surroundings, such as getting dressed, preparing food, laying the
table, wiping the floor, clearing dishes, doing the dusting, etc., are
activities belonging to what Dr. Montessori called 'Practical Life,'
and are precisely the tasks that adults like least. But between the
ages of one and four years, children love these jobs and are delighted
to be called on to participate in them.
—Dr. Silvana Montanaro, MD, and Montessori Teacher Trainer

Participating in Family Life
Human beings of all ages want to be able to communicate with others,
to challenge themselves, to do important work, and to contribute to
society. This is human nature at its best.

This desire is especially strong during the time when the child who
has been observing all kinds of important activity going on around her
has finally mastered the mental and physical skills to stand up, walk,
use her hands, and participate in real work.

A child learns self-control, and develops a healthy self-image if the
work is real—washing fruits and vegetables, setting or clearing a
table, washing dishes, watering plants, watering the garden, sorting,
folding, and putting away laundry, sweeping, dusting, helping in the
garden, any of the daily work of her family.

Family work, known as Practical Life in Montessori schools, is the
single most important area of a Montessori education at any age.
Allowing the child to participate in the life he sees going on around
him is an act of great respect for, and confidence in, the child. It
helps him to feel important to himself and to those around him. He is
needed. We can empathize if we think of the difference in our feelings
for a dinner guest in our home who is completely served and waited on,
or for one who is welcomed in our kitchen to talk and to laugh while
we prepare the meal together. In the first instance the guest is
separate, the relationship formal. In the second we share our life and
the relationship is intimate—a true friendship.

Three Areas of Family Life
The main areas of practical life activities are:

1. The care of the self: dressing, brushing teeth, cooking, and so on.

2. Grace and courtesy and concern for others: moving gracefully, using
good manners, offering food, saying "please" and "thank you," etc.

3. Care of the environment: dusting, sweeping, washing clothes, gardening.

Children have always shown us their interest in practical life by
pretending to cook and clean, taking care of a doll, carrying out
adult conversations, etc. But when given the chance, they would much
rather be doing the real work of the family and community, instead of
pretending. A child would prefer to remove real dust from a dusty
shelf with a real child-sized duster, to help collect the dirty
laundry, or to fold it, to take part in preparing real meals, rather
than to pretend to do these things with toys.

. . . but I know happiness does not come with things.
It can come from work and pride in what you do. —Gandhi

The Work Environment and Concentration
One of the most calming activities for a child is concentration. This
does not include passive, non-participatory concentration such as
watching television or videos. The action must be something which is
controlled by the child so she can repeat it as often as necessary,
and it must challenge her body as well as her mind.

The choice of activities is not as important as the level of
concentration brought forth. Deep concentration can occur while
digging in the sand, washing carrots, stringing beads, coloring, doing
a puzzle. The Montessori Assistant to Infancy gives lessons which are
well thought out, logical and clear; she creates an environment which
fosters work, and she is always on the lookout for a child beginning
to concentrate. When this happens she protects the child from
interruption because she understands the place of this experience in
creating balance and happiness in
the child.

The availability of a special little table kept cleared off and ready
for work can help the child focus on her work and stick to it until
she is finished. It is a natural consequence that, if the work is not
put away, the space will not be available for the next activity.

An apron, used for cooking, cleaning, woodworking, gardening, etc.,
sometimes helps the child concentrate by marking the beginning and the
end of a task. It also elevates the importance of work in the child's
eyes. When a child's work is seen as important to the family, so is
the child.
An apron should be made so that the child can put it on and fasten it
by himself; then he can work whenever he wants to. A hook for hanging
it on the wall keeps it always ready.

The purpose of the apron, at least at this age, is not protection of
clothing as much as it is to mark the beginning and end of a task, to
help the child focus on the work, and to lend a feeling of respect to
this "real" work. This is what counts.

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Materials
Whenever it is possible and safe, we give beautiful, breakable
materials to the child, respectfully sharing with him what the rest of
the family uses—pottery, glass, metal, real tools. There is a great
increase in the self-respect of the child when she is allowed to use
our things, instead of being given plastic substitutes. There is also
a corresponding respect for, and caring for, the materials when they
are beautiful and breakable.

Children and parents can work together to make these things such as
cutting out and hemming aprons and dust cloths. In days past the
aprons, cloth napkins, polishing cloths, were decorated with
embroidery by teachers and members of the children's family. In the
Montessori Assistants to Infancy training, students still do
this—adding special touches to the items they make for infants and
young children.

Often in the home we need to think carefully about how to arrange the
children's practical life supplies. If the parent is a woodworker, or
a gardener, a few good-quality but child-size tools can be kept in a
special place near the parent's tools, easily within reach. He can be
shown how to use them along with the parent, and how to clean them and
put them away when the work is finished.

We can do the same with tools for cleaning, preparing food, cooking,
setting the table, any activity. We can either adapt our tools,
cutting off the handles of good brooms and mops, or make or buy
suitable ones—a small apron, smaller metal buckets, watering cans,
kitchen tools, and so forth. For a child, just a few minutes a day
working with parents on important "adult" activities can have a great
benefit and begin a new way of communicating and living together.

A Place for Everything and Everything in its Place
Ideally, whenever a toy or tool is brought into a home the family
decides exactly where it will be kept. Any great artist, or car
mechanic, knows the value of being able to find his tools ready for
use exactly when he needs them. Children are the same, and their sense
of order is far more intense at this age because they are constructing
themselves through work.

In our home for many years we had to show guests where the dishes were
kept because they were all in the low cupboards, within reach of the
children. Dangerous cleaning supplies of course were kept out of
reach, but everything else in the house was kept within reach of the
children and their friends.

The Child's Purpose
The child's reasons for, and methods of, working are different from
ours. We adults will usually choose to carry out a task in the most
efficient and quickest way. A child, on the other hand, is working to
master the activity and to practice and perfect her abilities. She may
scrub a table for hours, but only when she feels the urge. She may
sweep the floor every morning for two weeks and not again for a
month—because she will be occupied with mastering something else. If
we expected her to keep carrying out every new activity every day,
there would be no time for sleep.

There are many physical, emotional and mental values in work. Through
these activities the child learns to be independent. There can be no
intelligent choice or responsibility at any age without independence
in thought and action. She learns to concentrate, to control muscles,
to focus, to analyze logical steps and complete a cycle of activity.

It is precisely because of the valuable work in practical life that
children in Montessori homes and schools are able to concentrate, make
intelligent decisions and master the beginnings of other areas of
study such as math, language, the arts and the sciences. But the
purpose of this work is the inner satisfaction, and the support of the
optimum development of the child. Following a successful, complete
cycle of family work, a child becomes calm and satisfied and, because
of this inner peace, full of love for the environment and for others.

Undressing, Dressing
Undressing is easier than dressing and is learned first—sometimes much
to the consternation of the parents. Clothing that is easy to remove
and to put on oneself enables the child to practice these skills.
These are things to consider when picking out any clothing, from shoes
to pajamas, to coats, for young children.

A child's efforts at picking out her own clothes and dressing herself
are satisfied if the parents hang up, within the child's reach, just
two outfits, letting the child decide between them when she dresses in
the morning. This is enough of a decision in the beginning. Eventually
she will be able to select everything from drawers, hangers, and
shelves.

Expressing Emotions
Children also read the adult's mind and emotion and will carry out
research to find out exactly what the parent is trying to communicate
when they give double messages—for example when an angry parent is
trying to appear cheerful.

A child needs to know that it is all right to feel and express anger
and frustration. He needs models to learn how—walking, scrubbing a
floor, hitting a pillow or pounding clay—and not hitting another
person (spanking included). If an adult goes for a walk or pounds
clay, so will the child. If the adult hits the child, the child learns
that it is okay to hit to express emotion.

The Needs Of The Parents
The working parent does not always have the time to include the child
in everything and should not feel bad about this. We must be easy on
ourselves in the home and plan a time when we will really enjoy
working together.

Success may come slowly in the beginning, as we learn how to "follow
the child." It is helpful to begin with one thing, perhaps putting the
napkins on the table for a meal, and gradually add to the tasks in
which the child can participate, and little by little take over.

Soon we will begin to learn from the child how to bring our whole
selves, mental, physical, and spiritual, to the task of the moment, to
focus on each thing we do, and to enjoy each moment of life. Thus the
child becomes the teacher of the adult. The needs of the adult are met
at the same time as the needs of the child.


The text from this section of the 2009-2010 edition of The Joyful
Child, Montessori from Birth to Three
To see other sections of this publication return to:
http://www.michaelolaf.com/JCcontents.html

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